Post by Aaron Graf on Oct 23, 2004 17:09:51 GMT -5
Jealous Guy: The Classic Excuse
You tell me he’s just jealous, it’s the same old excuse,
But the controlling way he is, is right next to abuse.
I wish you could see it, this guy can’t be changed,
He’s threatening your male friends, he’s acting deranged.
He’s not just a jealous guy,
When he monitors who calls you on the phone.
When he tells them he’ll make them die,
And not to be near “my girl” alone.
He isn’t just jealous, I hope that you’ll see,
I said hello to your screen name, and he said he’d put a bullet in me.
He’s yelling at strangers on the streets,
And screaming “Quit lookin’ at my wife!”<br>On their face he will beat,
To within an inch of their life.
You don’t deserve this treatment, I wish you would listen.
Why would you want to be his wife? Why would you take this transition?
This man doesn’t love you, except as a slave,
Is it just jealousy to you when he wanted to put me in my grave?
For hugging you like always when we greet each other,
Even when he knows we’re almost like a sister and brother.
There’s nothing good with him, you’re keeping yourself in harm’s way.
Help yourself and leave this sick fuck, don’t bother to stay.
He’s not worthy of you, there are better guys to find,
I’d gladly show you who they were if he didn’t make you blind.
He can be insecure all he wants, but if he threatens me he’ll die,
I just want you to know, I don’t care if he’s a jealous guy.
~ Aaron Graf
Author's Comments/Rants: This one I wrote obviously because 2nd only to rapists and beaters, I HATE POSSESSIVE BOYFRIENDS!!! Many guys and girls know these types very well, some girls reading this could very well be in a relationship with one and are still denying it. THing is, it's one thing to be a little worried that she'll cheat, we all worry that we're going to be cheated on. It's something completely different to get mad when guys call her up [even just hanging out], or if somebody says hello to her on the streets and he threatens them, I know that one from being there. Many a female friends I hardly talk to anymore because they get with these kinds of guys and they treat them like crap, monitor everything even their email!!!!!!!!!!!! And of course when I tell them they need to ditch that guy they tell me "Oh he's just jealous he's a sweetheart." Give me a fucking break. Do I sound mean to the girl? FUCK NO! I wouldn't want a guy with a possessive girlfriend either, once they get to where they are suspicious of the opposite sex being near their girlfriend that's borderline abusive. The thing that pisses me off about it is that these girls continue to stay with these guys and think they're so sweet. I don't know, soem I met were in denial, other just thought it was only insecurity, I haven't met any who liked that in a guy yet. Thing is, next time you see a possessive boyfriend [or if your'e the guy who gets threatened by them for talking to his girlfriend] just beat them into a coma and do the world a good favor. I'm serious, men like this need to get the shit kicked out of them until they learn to get over their controlling behaviors and realize that their wife or girlfriend is not their prisoner. Okay comment/rant over with.
You tell me he’s just jealous, it’s the same old excuse,
But the controlling way he is, is right next to abuse.
I wish you could see it, this guy can’t be changed,
He’s threatening your male friends, he’s acting deranged.
He’s not just a jealous guy,
When he monitors who calls you on the phone.
When he tells them he’ll make them die,
And not to be near “my girl” alone.
He isn’t just jealous, I hope that you’ll see,
I said hello to your screen name, and he said he’d put a bullet in me.
He’s yelling at strangers on the streets,
And screaming “Quit lookin’ at my wife!”<br>On their face he will beat,
To within an inch of their life.
You don’t deserve this treatment, I wish you would listen.
Why would you want to be his wife? Why would you take this transition?
This man doesn’t love you, except as a slave,
Is it just jealousy to you when he wanted to put me in my grave?
For hugging you like always when we greet each other,
Even when he knows we’re almost like a sister and brother.
There’s nothing good with him, you’re keeping yourself in harm’s way.
Help yourself and leave this sick fuck, don’t bother to stay.
He’s not worthy of you, there are better guys to find,
I’d gladly show you who they were if he didn’t make you blind.
He can be insecure all he wants, but if he threatens me he’ll die,
I just want you to know, I don’t care if he’s a jealous guy.
~ Aaron Graf
Author's Comments/Rants: This one I wrote obviously because 2nd only to rapists and beaters, I HATE POSSESSIVE BOYFRIENDS!!! Many guys and girls know these types very well, some girls reading this could very well be in a relationship with one and are still denying it. THing is, it's one thing to be a little worried that she'll cheat, we all worry that we're going to be cheated on. It's something completely different to get mad when guys call her up [even just hanging out], or if somebody says hello to her on the streets and he threatens them, I know that one from being there. Many a female friends I hardly talk to anymore because they get with these kinds of guys and they treat them like crap, monitor everything even their email!!!!!!!!!!!! And of course when I tell them they need to ditch that guy they tell me "Oh he's just jealous he's a sweetheart." Give me a fucking break. Do I sound mean to the girl? FUCK NO! I wouldn't want a guy with a possessive girlfriend either, once they get to where they are suspicious of the opposite sex being near their girlfriend that's borderline abusive. The thing that pisses me off about it is that these girls continue to stay with these guys and think they're so sweet. I don't know, soem I met were in denial, other just thought it was only insecurity, I haven't met any who liked that in a guy yet. Thing is, next time you see a possessive boyfriend [or if your'e the guy who gets threatened by them for talking to his girlfriend] just beat them into a coma and do the world a good favor. I'm serious, men like this need to get the shit kicked out of them until they learn to get over their controlling behaviors and realize that their wife or girlfriend is not their prisoner. Okay comment/rant over with.